Anyone find this vexing besides me? My wife's sex drive has diminished since the last baby, but she's a good girl, gives me my twice-a-week service and knows just what to say to further arouse me. I have had zero luck in the AMP world. I mean zero. I think some of them would play along if they understood what you were trying to get them to do (hell they'd probably be thrilled to speed up the process!). Occasionally I'll get a "fuk Me" but nothing that really works...one provider was game, but just couldn't execute, "oh yeah I'm big whore for you baby!"
I'm not talking "you strong," or "you handsome" you guys know what I mean right? Any luck?
No, in my 75 plus years have never needed, talk too me dirty. The act itself seems to be enough. Maybe you are under stress or something similar. Try too relax and enjoy the moment. sometimes its just a period we go through. Give your self a chance.
Thanks man, and I mean it thanks for your concern! I get by just fine without it! I'm generally good for 2 pops in an hour session without any verbal cues. It's just something I like.
I have been around nearly as long as King Louie. I love expression, but it has to be natural. If expressiveness is obviously faked, it is a distraction for me. My favorite provider just coos oooh and ahhh, sometimes call my name; and, she seems genuine when she does it. That works for me. Genuine expression is very helpful.
On the opposite side, total silence and stillness are the worse things that can happen to me. If she just lies there, like a board, and I have to do all the humping, I can't handle that. I will make her do a CG or RCG just to get her moving, even if she never says anything. If we are not into FS, then I look for as much attention as I can get during the HJ.
I suppose TS and Massage can be considered foreplay. However, I take it a step further and finger them. If they are moist or become moist, you know they are "into it".
I've hooked up a couple of times with a stripper that does the dirty talk. I don't even ask. She just does it. She sounds just like a porn star when she gets going. "Oooh, baby, f#k me, yeah, deeper, deeper yeah..." I kind of like it, but I don't need it. Most of the time, it just sounds too insincere, and its more of a distraction to me. To each his own.
That says it all right there. A hell of a great majority of providers are there to "fill a void", whether it be stress, problems, some type of anxiety.... If you have a good bond with your wife (which it looks like you do) even though her sex drive has gone down, there will always be that natural emotion from her(that you don't get from any provider)that will give you that mental arousal. Remember They are mostly there either to pamper you or to be a physical need and not an emotional 1.
[/quote]If they are moist or become moist, you know they are "into it". [/quote]
That's true somewhat but then again providers that become moist is just sometimes natural. For example, for a FS adventure it's not just a "Wham bam thank you mam" otherwise they don't become physically stimulated. What's the old saying, "Let the car engine warm up for a little bit so the oil/lubricant can flow through the engine parts "
FS: Full Service, Vaginal intercourse to completion . full service - BJ + Sex
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HJ: Hand Job, stimulation of the penis using hand and fingers - hand job - a manual / hand release
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TS: Table shower: Washing of the body by another person, usually Asian woman, while laying on a table. First face down then on your back so particular attention can be paid to private parts.
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FS: Full Service, Vaginal intercourse to completion . full service - BJ + Sex
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