Sure this is preaching to the choir, but for any lurking parlor girls...
It's not that DIY can't be kinda fun sometimes, but cranking away with my own shoulder pretty much negates any therapeutic benefit from the massage.
I'm getting really discouraged with the whole experience.
New girl last week was totally cool to start, gets me to attention and says, "Party's on you." WTF??? I can have my own party without leaving the house.
She did excellent therapeutic work and then started acting effing psycho asking me questions about what I've heard about her when when I didn't want to finish the job. Why would she start something she wouldn't finish when I wasn't even making a big deal about wanting it?
My approach has been if it's a good massage I'm happy and if it's a HE I'm even happier. Obviously this isn't working. Seems like it's one or the other and the other is just too much bullshit to bother with.
Am I the one with the attitude problem or missing something? Or is that just the way it is in MN right now and that's why the forum has been so quiet lately?
forum has been quiet lately because you don't know who you are talking to anymore.
It used to be hobbiest talking to hobbiest and the occasional MP girl chiming in. Now you have MP girls using multiple aliases posing as hobbiest to flame real hobbiest, shill for their own businesses and get inside information to use against their own competition.
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On DIY, they seem to think they're somehow morally better than jackin jills they also LIE about being legal.
If you like jacking yourself off so be it, I happen to like touching the WHOLE body
As long as guys see the DIY providers they will exist. If guys stop seeing them service may improve. I will no longer see DIY providers. If someone just wants to do massage, that is ok I respect her decision, but don't tease and then say "you can take care of that yourself."
I never got one with an attitude but I did have one that told me to do it myself but when I moved her hand there she took care of business and another that after I took care of it the next visit she took care of it for me.
In the case I was referring to, she didn't give me attitude like she was offended that I removed the drape that was no longer fully serving its purpose anyway. She went from light and flirty to accusatory and kinda scary in a split second, after giving the boys a good fondle. I left with the impression that her goal from the start was to "expose" any hobbiests and make sure they don't return. Mission accomplished.
Also my bad because that's consistent with the reviews on the place. I was just out to enjoy a massage and went along with her suggestive behavior. This is why I'm saying it doesn't seem to work being open to either. If you really want the HE, there is a strict process to go through to get it, and that all but completely turns me off. Better ways to spend my time and energy...
I would never grab a therapist's hand and just move it there she was holing something else at the time. I am respectful of the therapists and am cautious in my actions. The last thing I want to do is upset someone who gives a great massage since that is what I am really looking for. Thanks all for the advice.
This topic reminded me of that goofy place over by the U of M that had the porn playing while massage and then DIY. If I am going to pay to watch some girl chowing down , I better have some throat juice on my shaft and ballsack!!
If the girl was late they'd ask if you wanted to watch a porno in the lobby while you wait so you're sitting there watching porn by the front door when the girl walks in...
This message is edited by FifthTimer on Nov 21st 2011 02:08 for reason: tmi
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Was that Baaexxx? They changed the name but
I think that creep still has nude photos of me from 10 years ago
I was going to work there but changed my mind after I found out he was using my pics to bait n switch Clients and purposefully not booking me anything because I was busier than his other girls. There wasn't a lot of ways to research back then so I can imagine how many wanted to see me only to get someone else and they put up with it.
This message is edited by VioletR on Nov 21st 2011 05:33 for reason: typo
wtf i refused to let him take nudes of me thats he hesitated to hire me. poor u
i dint stay long i was massaging a client then the asshole comes in telle me to get naked pops in a porno and sits down starts jacking off while im with a client! WTF
chuck is a sleez ball i quit as soon as that happened!
they r still around been busted a few times.
his room rental is ridiculous!
most people there r coke heads he always advertises in citypages it will never change and fake pics again
Also offered live sex shows. Basically you pay the girl to do him. WTF?x3!!! I may have "watched a lot of Cheech and Chong movies" back then, but never went for that one!