I have a great female therapist who does excellent deep tissue work. She comes to my house. Lately, she is getting closer to the goods and working on my inner thighs, groin area, etc. Last time she came over she spent 10 minutes massaging my stomach and I pulled the drape down, nearly exposing the goods (about 1/2 way exposed). She seems fine every time I pull the drape away and expose things -- never complains or moves the drape back. She is not Asian.
Be prepared to lose her as your therapist if you do. If you're okay with that very real possibility, you could. If she objects but doesn't terminate you as a client, it'd be damn awkward and likely spoil the relaxation in future sessions, right? Never have had a true legit therapist get close to the goods, so hell if I know what to suggest!!!
"Seeing the goods" and touching them, may be two different things to this lady. I've had "therapists" who I did everything in my power to hint at touching the goods, and they did not respond to the hints; so, I flat out asked them to touch the goods, and normally they say, "I'm sorry but I don't massage there." Some have said this "at first," but because I knew better, I persisted and they ended up giving me a hj. On a couple of occasions, after giving me a hj, the therapist would say, "I never do that. You're the only one." Those are my favorite. he he
Time's advice may be fairly accurate. If you're willing to lose this woman as a therapist, then go ahead and ask, or drop less subtle hints. Who knows, she may give you a nice wild hj. I might try dropping less subtle hints, especially if you get a nice hard on during the massage. You might then ask her what she thinks about it.
I disagree, with the notion that you will lose her because of the mere suggestion. Times are tough for legitimate therapist just like anyone else. As long as you ask in a decent way, and she refuses she probably wont want to lose a good client. Do you honestly think she has never been asked by any other clients.
Thanks for all the tips, folks. I will take these ideas into consideration. As I'm sure many of you can appreciate, the AMP experience is often lacking in quality when it comes to a real deep tissue massage. Sure would be great to get the top notch massage and then the he.
Omagoa, I get a laugh everytime I get a HJ and she says I'm not that kind of girl, I don't do that. Then with a little convincing she begins and ends like a pro. The final words, I never did that before, my first time. Yea right!
If I am asked by a therapeutic client I tell them I only massage thats what was stated in my ad.If you want a good massage id be happy to see you again if you wants extras another girl is better for you. they usually say they are sorry for insulting me. imo their not really or they never would have asked but whatevs ;) sometimes u need to test the water in their defense it never hurts to ask.
Then their is that small % of i fits not broke dont fix it clients... when seeing someone for awhile then being asked for a hj make it seem like thats all u really wanted and it can ruin a ther client relat
95% if asked nicely about it i dont mind being asked
i will just decline. its much cheaper to get a HE from a R&T girl that a therapeutic therapist .
This message is edited by msggrl on Mar 31st 2011 08:46 for reason: ............
There = a place or indicates the existance of something (there is, there are etc)
Their = is to indicate possession
They're = Contraction for they are.
That happened with me at a place I thought was strictly legit. On the flip, something came up -- hey, sometimes it just happens -- and the next thing I knew, she had pulled the sheet off and was working the little guy. I didn't ask, she didn't ask -- she just...did.
And, yes, I did thank her and made sure to go back.
im the first one to say im horrible typer and still far from prefect with my grammer?
i always get it wrong i just dont care ne more... thats another story i think gen speaking u all know what i mean.. sometime i type more broken english that others u think thats bad u should hear me talk sometime half english half not ha ha
I don't care about msgirl's typing or her English. I do value her participation on this board and her willingness to share her perspectives and experience. She is MUCH more literate in my native language than I am in her's. In fact, I'm illiterate in her native language. So, to msgirl: thanks for your insights, please keep sharing.
Tarzan, my opinion is that you should move forward. I agree that it's unlikely that you would lose her, although you never know. It kinda depends on your relationship with her.
Take the drape off entirely saying it isn't necessary. See if she continues to move closer. Get hard if you can without touching. If she acknowledges it in any way, smile and raise an eyebrow. You might tell her you would enjoy giving her a little massage.
If it isn't happening so far I'd suggest, hard or not, touch yourself for a couple seconds while she is working on you. What you want should be quite clear by now. You can politely ask her to grab your dick. I really hope she will.
If she shuts you down at any point, you at least gave it a good try. It's possible that as she knows you better, she is just giving a more thorough legit massage. Continue to enjoy her great work.
Good luck.
Well I wouldn't have said ANYTHING if you had at least applied your misuse of the 3 consistantly in your post. But you used the various forms multiple times sometimes correctly and then incorrectly, or vice versa.
I do not want to discourage anyone from participating, but if you have a thought to share, slow down and share it as correctly as you can. I do not personally care if you spell correctly or get everything gramtically correct. I (and this is not directly solely at msggrl)cringe at having to deciver posts typed like someone is sending a text message or tweet.....
If its that hard to understand a post or comment, it is not worth figuring out, and your point(which may be valid) could be overlooked.
This message is edited by TheROCK on Apr 6th 2011 15:38 for reason: ...
@omagoa...proves you can find anything on the internet...
@msggrl...We have your back so you can have ours!
@Rock...I am usualy very anal about the 'There' family...the teacher in me...
@Tarzan...I have gone to 'legit' places where the HE was a huge plus and completely unexpected...and AMP's where the ending was far from happy...I have also had to 'do it myself' with a legit therapist saying that it didn't bother her as it happened all the time and another one telling me I was a vile pig.
If you are a comfortable as you have stated, I don't think there's (right one???) a reason not to atleast broup the subject, even if you have to ask it in another way, like, "Do guys get turned on when you massage them? What do you do if that happens?"
Knowledge is power!
This message is edited by tenorman on Apr 7th 2011 07:46 for reason: stupid fingers doing their own damn thing again!
