From my reading of this site, full release at an AMP seems to be a fairly straight forward process. You walk through the door, get a massage then get a HJ. That was my objective walking through the door labeled "Bangkok Thai Massage" but something else happened.
My therapist showed me such kindness that I couldn't think of asking her to end the massage with a sex act, even though the sex act was why I came. I returned twice more to the same therapist in the hopes that I could work up the nerve to ask her for a HJ. Each time all the nerve I came with vanished as soon as her healing hands touched me.
The advice here is contradictory. "Treat your therapist with respect" and "Grab your therapist ass to let her know you're not LE." As a rule, I don't grope people I respect, especially someone I've only known for a few hours.
How does one remain a gentleman and ask a woman to debase herself by masturbating a relative stranger? I asked myself that question as I turn my head to see a box of kleenex sitting on the corner of the bed. Maybe kleenex is a normal product one finds in a massage parlor. I wouldn't know. This is the first time I have ever had a professional massage - with professional being the key word here. Her hands never strayed, and I stayed well covered.
Just throwing out my experience to the group for comments.
I met a fluent bilingual Chinese girl last summer and managed to coax her for some tease and HE and some touching under clothes. A couple months later, I visited her again. She is very sweet, kind, likes me very much (as I do), but told me when it came time that she doesn't want to do it anymore. She doesn't want customers touching her "there" and her touching us "there," but it seems she truly enjoys me and I her kindness and sweetness, as well. I acknowledged to her that I understand and respect how you changed since I first saw you months ago. Heck, she wants me to stop coming for massages, telling me I should save my money. She's a very sweet girl with a dreamy touch... she's now the type I wouldn't to ask for sexual acts while at work. Hopefully, I can get some outside the MP.
Listen when guys say 'grab her ass' most of us older and wiser hobbiests simply mean when the opportunity presents itself(your hand is close to her body) touch her, gently stroke her leg, foot, or rear if it is anywhere near your hands.
This is not only going to let her know you are not LE, but let her know that you are interested in extras.
If you are too shy to touch her, simply get an erection while she massages your front and ask if she could massage that 'tense spot'.
Usually she asks "where would you like more massage" at that point take her hand gently and place it on your junk.
A few years ago I was at strip club... A friend of mine was talking to a stripper and her booty was in clear view, I wanted to grab it but I held back and just lightly brushed up against her... She then grabs my hand and forces me to grab her ass and says "This is a strip club"
Respect is relative and situational... Don't treat a provider like a normal girl, be aggressive, they expect it.
On the other hand if it seems legit play it cool and do your research.
(1) "To each its own" but as 1 hobbiest mentioned here about a story of going into a strip club, IMO it's very similar with going into a EMP too. If you want some sweet talk with a legit massage then go to a legit palor.
(2) One can still remain a gentleman as long as "he stays within her boundaries". Sure a hobbiest could grope or grab her ass but a gentleman will show respect as TheRock mentioned.
If you have the balls to walk into a place with intentions of something more than just a massage - then you need to have the balls to ask for more when the time (or something else) arises...
I think you have guilt. Me, I try and give people the benefit of the doubt about their intelligence. She knows what you are there for and so do you. You are also not the only dog she sees in this dog and pony show. I think she is smart enough to know that you are a horny male and yet you still can like her. You are missing out on so much because of guilt. God, I sound like a devil that sits on your shoulder don't I?
All of the advice given is absolutely correct.All of these guys have been too many rodeos. If its a legit place, nothing is going to happen. Be gentle in the way you touch her,tell you enjoy being with her. Treat her like a lady on a date. If that doesn't work,find a new place.
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that's how it works from my standpoint. But one thing I know is that LE can touch us, they get away with it all the time .
sometimes just taking her hand nicely and putting it where you'd like works.
worst can happen is she just up and leaves.
rarely would a gal totally lose it and yell at you.
