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to Sun SpaI was at sun today an saw one of the other massage rooms have a flat screen t.v. in it. Does anyone know what thats all about?
It is probably for the ladies that want to watch TV Korea after all the customers are gone late at night.
I do know that Sarah at Fuji gets a stream of Korean TV stations via the internet so she uses her laptop computer. I stopped by Fuji the other day to say hello to Young but Young was not around. Sarah asked me to show her all the websites that we use to find out about which girls are working at what spas. I showed her USG and this site. Sarah was really intrigued by this site so I let her stay on the site after I departed.
You guys can't be serious. Sarah already had seen the sites from another customer. She is the one that named the sites to me. Besides, who cares - all these ladies know about what we are doing. Don't be so naive.
This message is edited by Jeff S 2 times on Oct 26th 2010 01:33 for reason: Modified
One thing is for certain, if the spa women find out you posted a negative review about them on one of those websites, it will not be a good thing for you.
It is better to get the services, go home and keep quiet.
your right jefs they are the ones that are stupid to think the girls that have been around for a while know about the site and they need to protect them selfs as much s the customers ot talking aboout it only puts them at risk and do you guys think because the ladys come from another country there stupid and dont know anything?wake up most know more about whats up then you.if you guys aint figured out you never will.these lady all talk together most know faster when something happens to a spa then we do they are a net work or atleast most.who all talk to each other
The mamasans and spa girls know about EMP, USASG and WSG, as well as other sites. Even if a girl can't read or speak good English, they can get a co-worker or use a translation program to figure out what is posted about them.
First you post this quote. Then you say she already knew about the sites. If she already knew about them, why did she ask you to show them to her and why was she so "intrigued".
Think about it Jeff, sometimes we want to let our fellow patrons know what these girls are like. And maybe we don't want to hurt the girls feelings or make them angry. What if you get a girl who is nice, but does something that gross you out? Why let her know that you are the one told the world? If you post something specific about a session, the girls are smart enough to remember the session too.
Case in point, you and Yung. You were no doubt naive enough to show her the sites. And look what it got you. You think you are making friends with the girls by doing this, but you aren't. Sure the girls know about the sites, but they don't know who is posting unless you give details.
For example, if I say I stopped on a specific day and was offered one girl, but asked for different one, then ended up doing a 3 way in the shower and then the sauna, they will remember you. Then when you post a less than positive review about a bad session on a later date, you will be treated accordingly.
They are not just smart, this is all they do.
This message is edited by RickyBobbie 2 times on Oct 26th 2010 05:14 for reason: grammar
Sarah had seen the site but did not know how to navigate through the site to see all the information that was available to the viewer. I showed her how to use the site. She was intrigued by all the information that was on the site. I should have been more specific.
I believe that if you have an issue with a provider, talk to her. Don't hide behind some silly name and then give her a negative review on a website.
I know you hate Young. That's your problem so why not address your issues with her face to face? Personally, I have no reason to hate her.
Did you log in to your account and not log out when you left?
Its one thing to tell her about the site, another to give her access.
Granted they can do it themselves but what is the point of you doing it for them. I am sure they are smart enough to find information out for themselves if they want to and feel its worth even knowing.
I agree with what has been posted, your really not going to gain any special treatment and I think that was a dumb move on your part jeffS.
I think the word that comes to mind is "White Knight".
Good luck with that. Just my 2 cents.
Yung was usually very nice to me. Then became angry with me. I am not 100% sure why.
I don't hate her. She was my favorite until she became angry with me. I have stopped a few times to talk to her, but either she was not there or she is hiding from me. It was/is all business to me. I am always friendly to the girls and treat them with kindness. She was just too inconsistent. And as you said, she prefers new customers. Maybe she's trying to keep men from getting attached to her.
As radamp64 put it and I'm sure that some of the hobbiest knows, that the mamasans and providers know that information about the providers and services are posted on different sites. Take for example here on EMP. If one gives a review on a provider that does bad service, it will give the other hobbiests a heads up but then again it can be YMMV. Even if the provider is nice, it's the service that counts, I don't care how nice she is. I know if I receive(which I have)a bad service with a nice attitude provider, I will not see that provider again and move on. I haven't posted any bad reviews here but I have on 2 other sites. I wont care how that provider will treat me on the next visit because there wont be a next visit with her. RickyBobbie, hurt a providers feelings or make them angry??? . I don't care how nice she is, you have found something negative on her services that she could use on another client and we are here to guide our fellow hobbiest, not to guide the providers. We here as members are to help out fellow members, that's the main focus on this site. Now if a hobbiest puts up a bad review to get revenge on a provider even though he knows that her services were great, THEN THERE'S A PROBLEM. To me there is a saying, "If you can't take the heat, then get out of the kitchen.
Now if Jeff S logged in with his account and left without logging out under his username, then that is his problem. Now if it was me, I would show them the sites but I wouldn't login with my username. They would have to create their own name and go through the site themselves. Cousinit, now I don't know about Jeff S but if I received a bad service, posted it, I don't care if there isn't going to be a special treatment if I see that same provider because there wont be a next time with her. I too believe that if I get a good or bad service, I will let the provider know but I have a feeling some of you hobbiest will just TOFTT without giving your 2 cents to the provider and move on.
As fo getting attached to a provider , to me it's the "Golden Rule" of hobbying unless we date and have a relationship outside of the hobby. RickyBobbie, you could be right, if a provider isn't supposedly there but you have a hunch she is, more than likely she is avoiding you for some reason.
This message is edited by apache 2 times on Oct 26th 2010 11:28 for reason: correction
If you have a good regular provider that you are seeing freqently, eventually your going to get a substandard massage. Don't post a negative review. It would be better to speak to the mamasan about the problem or just try another provider next time.
If your regular provider finds out you posted something bad about her, then it might damage the relationship you have with her and future services might be limited or not available.
Remember that you do have a "relationship" of sorts once you have seen the same girl a number of times. She will begin to trust you. If you betray that trust just one time, no apology will undo the damage. She will never really forgive or trust you again.
Just an opinion, mind you: there's an old proverb that if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. Very consistently, I disagree with my friends about which girls are the best and which girls are not even desirable, and this holds true with both massage girls and lap dancers, based upon looks, technique, attitude, and other factors. If I dig her, she deserves a positive review. Otherwise, who knows? This hobby is almost entirely subjective. The only time this doesn't apply is in the few cases where the provider is a real "tare" and shouldn't be working in this field anyway. You probably can't discern that after only one visit, and if your experience wasn't what you expected, why would you see the woman again? If she's really bad, she probably won't be around long anyhow.
macpeel, I've heard about that proverb and I stick to it but "there are exceptions to the rule" and one of them is posting a review as it'll save other hobbiest of wasting hard earned cash.
Apache. I only calls 'em as I sees 'em.But thinking back to the days when there were 5-6 AMPs in Cleveland, I once vidited one near W. 80th and Lorain (South side of street, in sort of an old theater building on the strip, if anyone else remembers that place). After paying for what should have been a very good time -- with a pretty fine-looking chick, she was not in a good mood, or for some reason was putting on a very snotty act. She was acting very uncool and I felt like walking out, but for some reason I grabbed her by the rear end and fucked the hell out of her doggy style, with no formalities or explanation. Bang, bang, bang! Boy, was she ever friendly after that and she treated me like a king. I saw her three times afterwards and I'll rank her with the very best ever. I'm not sure what point this illustrates. Eyes of the beholder kinda thing? Another time at another parlor, there was a totally nice and very sexy young masseuse who left for a while and eventually came back. She'd been in New York City and it showed. Was she ever creepy. This was before you could write reviews on the Internet. I'da probably posted a negative review though.
This message is edited by macpeel on Nov 4th 2010 18:09 for reason: spelling error
macpeel, "different strokes for different folks" on how one approaches a problem. It's "what makes the world click". One time I was receiving a BBBJ from a provider that didn't allow CIM or CIM/SW but I did a BBBJ (CIM/SW) because she was acting rude and snotty too. It was the first time she approached me like that. After I did the deed, she said, "You've changed" with a surprised expression but at the end of the service, she was happy as usual and things were back to the way they were. Maybe because it was that the previous session, I "did her anal" on her, showing her no compassion while she was gripping tight on the the mattress. She commented me on my looks and it was a "free for all". She showed no objection but when it was time for the show, there was no turning back and she regretted it. I did lube her ass a few times though, so I could cut her some slack on that virgin anal.
This message is edited by apache on Nov 4th 2010 23:26 for reason: correction
. I don't care how nice she is, you have found something negative on her services that she could use on another client and we are here to guide our fellow hobbiest, not to guide the providers. We here as members are to help out fellow members, that's the main focus on this site. Now if a hobbiest puts up a bad review to get revenge on a provider even though he knows that her services were great, THEN THERE'S A PROBLEM. To me there is a saying, "If you can't take the heat, then get out of the kitchen. 
, to me it's the "Golden Rule" of hobbying unless we date and have a relationship outside of the hobby. RickyBobbie, you could be right, if a provider isn't supposedly there but you have a hunch she is, more than likely she is avoiding you for some reason.
