Okay, so what is up with the finger in the ear thing? Anyone else had this experience before at an AMP...the masseuse twirls a finger in your ear and giggles as though she's doing something naughty?
This has happened to me a few times, and I don't get it. Maybe it's an Asian thing...something Asian men find titillating. Personally, it does nothing for me. If anyone has any insight to share it'd help to satisfy my curiosity.
In my case, it definitely wasn't done so I couldn't hear something else going on. It was pretty obvious that it was supposed to be either titillating or endearing, but I just thought it was kinda weird.
I'll tell you. The girls know that tonguing a guy's ear is a turn on for most guys. However, since most of the girls won't kiss (especially with the tongue) and many don't want to give head without a condom on our members, the girls think (falsely) that fingering some guy's ear is a turn on much like them tonguing our ears.
Try this: the next time some chick does this, just tell her "Stop doing that and lick my balls instead."
A few years ago, before i knew of f/s and only was aware of HJ's at Spas, a girl tried this out on me and started giggling
when i asked her what use could it have been at all to do that. Ah, she was the cutest, a real woman, possibly one of the
best looking clean girls ive seen at a Spa. That Spa has been closed for a while. Everytime i drive by that place i remember.
Chinese girls love to play with your ear lobes, esp. when cumming, but I've never met one who liked french kissing in the ear, or really ever had one stick her finger in your ear, but lobe play, boy, lotsa likee dat!
Some girls have fingered the ears (in and out) as part of massaging the head and face. And all of them felt pretty consistent as if part of a style. I've yet to have any dirty ear action from a girl... and can't say it might be a thing of mine.
As part of the head and face massage, pretty consistently they'll do this and yet they've never giggled, so maybe you're experiencing something different! I've always felt like it was a level of intimacy that I wasn't even sure I wanted, but didn't object as by that time I've been pretty close to asleep!
Yes, I just experienced this at my last AMP visit. Usually I see Koreans and, at most, they lick my ears. This last provider was Japanese. She did it as part of the massage. She also folded the tops of my ears so they touched the lobes. I suspect that this is a massage technique (perhaps common in some Asian quarters) and is not necessarily meant to be erotic.
I believe this was a sexual tradition brought to Asia by intergalactic Asians several centuries ago. These Asians from space had sharp pointy ears that remained hard and erect at all times so an ocular hj felt good. These intergalactic Asians were called Vulcans.
Well, when she does go down on me, I really don't want to be thinking of Spock, so thanks for ruining it for me, StrokerAce! I really think there's some kinda acupressure qi-points going on for her, and for my money, when they're rubbing your ears and you're cumming hard in their tight lil pussy, there's nothing inter-galactic 'bout dat! its down on earth and dirty brah, and its f-ing great! ;-)
I have had this happen to me many times and have asked the same question on other boards. No one has given me a very good reason. I guess, like they said above, it must be part of the head massage, but it seems strange. I do make a point of cleaning my ears extra good when I go get an Asian massage now.
I've had this happen on quite a few occasions and it's always been with very special providers who I had been with many times and established a genuine connection. Usually it has been during prolonged and intense daty sessions and yes there has been plenty of giggling too. Judging from this and comments from others, it's apparent that it is a sign of genuine affection so even if you really don't care for it I would suggest accepting it for what it is and be happy for it.[b]
Absolutely agree 100%. Some of the other stupid things include bobbing their head (as if ....) I had an almost-too-old provider recently make what I guess she thought were sucking sounds while she was stroking.
I just had this happen last week with a new provider I've been going to who gives a great scalp massage. I don't find it a turn on, I'm too worried that my ears might not be clean!
IMHO, the ear rubbing is just part of one of the better massages, especially if after the pop! I happen to LOVE the head and scalp massage and if the ears are included, then even better. I think it feels good and is especially relaxing after a good body massage with a good HE.
My little sweetie does wonders for my neck and shoulders, but then she will go to work on the ears. Sometimes I wonder if I won't have califlower ears by the time she gets done. Not so far, at least until now. My biggest problem is she went to visit her sister.she has already informed me if she fines out I've been with somebody else, I gonna play Loraina Bobbett with you playboy. Now thats a real problem. It will be 20 days and I could have a white out. For those of you who don't know what a white is, its when all that cum backs up in your system and your eye balls turn white.Now I want to know what other site is this much fun?